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If You Love Someone . . .
If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ...
then it's not love..
it's  -  Infatuation . . .
If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because
others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love..
it's  -  compromise . . .
If you love some one because you think that you cannot live with out his touch ....
then it's not love ..
it's  -  lust . . .
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...
then it's not love..
it's  -  inferiority complex . . .
If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..
then it's not love ..
it's  -  charity . . .
If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...
then it's not love..
it's  -  friendship . . .
but if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
and you cry for him ..
that's -  LOVE . . .
if you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets..
that's -  LOVE . . .
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to..
that's -  LOVE . . .